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My Symbol of Freedom: When a Hat is More Than a Hat

2025-07-31 23:57

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Phase 1:

When you’re new to it (or it is new to you), there’s an irrational fear—a paranoia, really—that others will know, that everyone is staring, that for some reason the world will stop paying attention to you and that… bulge.

 

Phase 2:

Next, you realize that the world hasn’t stopped and isn’t going to, so you bravely go on, doing the things you need to. You’re still self-conscious, still worried, still aware, but you move forward.

 

Phase 3:

Then, after a while, you realize that no one is staring, no one is judging, and the world is so busy looking inward that absolutely no one has ever noticed—or will ever notice—that little bump.

Phase 4:

Finally, you get to the “so what?” stage. This is the stage where you realize that none of it really matters. Those who love you don’t care that you leak and those who don’t love you are irrelevant. That lady at the grocery store? You’re never going to see her again. That neighbor who saw a waistband peeking out of your pants? She probably had no idea what he saw and likely thought nothing of it two seconds later.

And besides, so what? You’re still you. Tomorrow’s another day. Nothing has changed.

 

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This hat is my Phase 4. I made it. I wear it not proudly but without any regard for the fact that it has the logo (and web address) of an online incontinence products store on it. If it weren’t so stained, I’d wear it anywhere I needed a hat. Could someone recognize the logo? Sure. They’d recognize it if they bought their products from NorthShore, too.

And then maybe I’d make a new friend, which would be just fine.


If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve already found some go-to adult diapers and other incontinence products that help you feel a little more secure and confident. (If you’re earlier in the journey or just getting familiar with NorthShore, we’ve got you covered: start here for a breakdown of the basics, from busting myths to finding great incontinence solutions.)

And maybe, just maybe, you’ve taken another monumental step: You might have shared your experience with a family member, close friend, partner, or healthcare provider. If so, that’s something worth recognizing. Naming it out loud is powerful.

So now that you’ve got the essentials down, what’s next?

It’s time to build the world around your routine. One that feels easier, more connected, more supported... and maybe even a little more fun.

Because here’s the truth: you don’t have to figure it all out solo. Whether you're searching for practical tips, looking to connect with others who just get it, or ready to share what you’ve learned along the way, there’s a smart, supportive, and growing community out there.

Let’s take a look at where to find those connections and how surrounding yourself with the right people, tools, and conversations can help you feel empowered to live life on your own terms!


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